The Rational Male Quotes

Rollo Tomassi Quotes

Who is Rollo Tomassi?

Rollo Tomassi is the moniker of George W. Miller, an author in the field of sexuality and relationships more specifically from a male viewpoint.

Tomassi is dubbed the Godfather of the Redpill Community and is the author of 'The Rational Male'-series.

Born April 02, 1968


Best 70 Quotes by Rollo Tomassi

The Rational Male Quotes

“30 is the general age at which men (should) become aware of their own, longer-lasting sexual market value and potential.”

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The Rational Male

“A man with options has power, and from these options and this sense of power, a natural sense of confidence will manifest itself. A man without options becomes necessitous and this leads to a lack of confidence and a scarcity mentality. Necessitous men are never free.”

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The Rational Male

“A truly powerful man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. In other words his options and his ability to exercise them.”

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The Rational Male

“Anxiety, trauma and crisis are necessary catalysts to stimulate self-consciousness.”

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The Rational Male

“Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is never worth the wait.”

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The Rational Male

“Ask a woman to name the most attractive female actress they can think of. Odds are it will be a woman who as a guy you’d never think of.”

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The Rational Male

“Both sexes objectify one another. Naturally when we think of this, the popularized notion is that men objectify women as sex objects, but women have a tendency to objectify men as 'success objects' for the same reason. It is easier to accept rejection from an object than it is to take it from a living, breathing, human being. This is why we refer to intergender communication as a 'game'. We 'score' or we get 'shot down' not personally or emotionally rejected; the buffer is in the language and mental approach.”

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The Rational Male

“Comfort comes from familiarity and predictability; all decidedly anti-seductive influences. And while comfort has its own merits in interpersonal relationships, it is not the basis for genuine, passionate sexual desire.”

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The Rational Male

“Communicate with your behavior. Never overtly tell a woman anything. Allow her to come to the conclusions you intend. Her imagination is the best tool in your Game toolbox. Learn how to use it.”

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The Rational Male

“Covert communication frustrates us every bit as much as overt communication frustrates women. Our language has no art to it for them, that’s why we seem dumb or simple at best to women.”

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The Rational Male

“Despite all odds, people largely feel entitled to, or deserving of, an important love of their life.”

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“Everything a woman does on a daily basis is colored by competition anxiety.”

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“Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best and the breadth of experience serves a man well.”

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“Good girls are just bad girls who never got caught.”

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The Rational Male

“Great politicians, military leaders, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master PUAs all use covert communications to achieve their goals.”

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The Rational Male

“How do we know she’s a strong woman? The first cue is she communicates in an overt, information centered, masculine manner. She communicates like a man.”

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The Rational Male

“How you handle being alone and what you do with the opportunities that freedom allows is the real measure of a man. If you’re single and 50 you STILL have options if you’re only brave enough to explore them. I know divorced men in their 50s who’re dating mid 30s women right now and I know men in their 60s who’ve been trapped and emotionally blackmailed by their wives for 30 years. Marriage is no insulation from the sexual marketplace.”

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The Rational Male

“If I enjoy sitting at home eating a whole pizza, washing it down with a six pack of Budweiser and watching anime on a Friday evening, can I realistically expect that hot fitness instructor at the gym to come on over and genuinely want to fuck my brains out?”

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The Rational Male

“If you’re at all familiar with Charles Bukowski, you’ll know he was one of the last true sons of bitches – the unapologetic epitome of gloriously arrogant self-concern and masculine independence. For what he lacked in polish he made up for in talent and a brutal honesty that could never be acknowledged in the feminine centric social order of today. In the mid 60’s he was a feral, instinctually Red Pill Man.”

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“In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.”

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“Is the woman who applies make-up everyday ‘being herself‘?”

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The Rational Male

“It is always time and effort better spent developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.”

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“It’s hardly a surprise that connections with witchcraft have been associated with the feminine for so long.”

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The Rational Male

“It’s much easier for a man not to give a shit if he truly doesn’t give a shit.”

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The Rational Male

“It’s the man who remains in touch with his masculine side, the guy who, despite all of pop-culture denigrating and ridiculing his gender and the very aspects that make it a necessary, positive strength of human society, will endure and steadfastly resist the influences that want to turn it into something it was never intended; it’s this guy and his confidence that women all over the world find irresistible.”

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The Rational Male

“Men believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically.”

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“Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.”

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“Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.”

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The Rational Male

“Nothing is as simultaneously fear inspiring and arousing for women as a man she suspects is self-aware of his own value.”

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“Nothing is more self-satisfying for a woman than to think she’s figured a man out based solely on her mythical feminine intuition (i.e. imagination).”

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The Rational Male Quotes

“People resort to denial when recognizing that the truth would destroy something they hold dear.”

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The Rational Male

“Porn gives a guy his reward for free; a reward that should be her single best agency is rendered valueless when a man can get off to an infinite variety of sexual experience at the click of a mouse. It’s unlimited access to unlimited sexual availability without the stress of learning methods to earn it from women as a reward.”

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The Rational Male

“Power isn’t financial resources, status or influence over others; power is the degree over which you control your own life, and right now, if I’ve just described you, you are powerful.”

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“Promise yourself you won’t allow yourself to let emotionality and conditioned expectations of monogamy dictate what your goals will be or how you’ll achieve them.”

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“Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. It’s sex first, then relationship, not the other way around.”

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“So entrapped are we in our self-expectation and self-imposed limitations that we fail to see that we have always had the keys to our own prisons – we're just scared shitless to use them.”

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The Rational Male

“Stimulating a woman’s imaginings is the single most potent talent you can develop in any context of a relationship.”

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“The girl who bangs the hot guy at the foam party in Cancun on Spring Break within 5 minutes of meeting him is the same girl who wants you to believe that they’ll only fuck one guy at a time and then after commitment.”

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The Rational Male

“The guy she wants to fuck is dominant because that’s ‘the way he is’ instead of who she had to tell him to be. Observing the process will change it. This is the root function of every shit test ever devised by a woman. If masculinity has to be explained to a man, he’s not the man for her.”

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The Rational Male

“The guy with the capacity to call a woman’s bluff with a confidence that implies she is to be worthy of him rather than the other way around is the man to be competed for.”

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The Rational Male

“The only way to determine genuine motivation and/or intent is to observe the behavior of an individual.”

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“The vast majority of guys (see Betas), particularly in western culture, tend to transition from mother to wife with little or no intermission between.”

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“There is no Quality Woman, that’s an idealization. Some are better than others of course, but you don’t find the perfect woman, you make the perfect woman.”

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The Rational Male

“This is the single greatest failing of average frustrated chumps: they vomit out everything about themselves, divulging the full truth of themselves to women in the mistaken belief that women desire that truth as a basis for qualifying for their intimacy or enduring commitment. Learn this now: Women never want full disclosure.”

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The Rational Male

“We filter for information to work from, not the subtle details that make communication enjoyable for women.”

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The Rational Male

“What’s the chance a 30-year-old can get pregnant in one try? Many thought up to 80 percent, while in reality it’s less than 30 percent.”

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The Rational Male

“Whatever you cannot say ‘No’ to is your master and makes you its slave.”

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“When a person internalizes a mental schema so thoroughly, and has become conditioned to it for so long, it becomes an integral part of their personality. So to attack the belief is to, literally, attack the person.

This is why we see such a violent reaction to people’s political, religious, inter-social/inter-sexual, inter-gender, etc. expressions of belief – they perceive it as a personal attack, even when presented with irrefutable, empirical evidence that challenges the veracity of those beliefs.”

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The Rational Male

“When women employ gossip it comes natural since it is an emotional form of communication (men have a far lower tendency to use gossip), but the purpose of it is meant to disqualify a potential sexual competitor.”

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The Rational Male

“Women are every bit as calculating as men, in fact more so I’d argue because they have the mystique to hide a multitude of sins behind.”

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“Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman.”

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The Rational Male

“Women are rewarded and reinforced by society for being elusive and, dare I say, seemingly irrational.”

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The Rational Male

“Women care less about the content of what’s being communicated and more about the context (the how) of what’s being communicated.”

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The Rational Male

“Women crave the chemical rush that comes from suspicion and indignation. If you don’t provide it, they’ll happily get it from tabloids, romance novels, The View, Tyra Banks or otherwise living vicariously through their single girlfriends.”

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The Rational Male

“Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy.”

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“Women enjoy the communication more than the information being transferred.”

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“Women want to be with men who other women want to fuck, and other men want to be.”

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“Women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck.”

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The Rational Male

“Women will cry a river about wanting Mr. Dependable and then go off to fuck Mr. Exciting.”

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The Rational Male

“Women will fuck. They may not fuck you, they may not fuck me, but they will fuck someone.”

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“Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser.”

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The Rational Male

“Women, being the calculating gender, know all too well to hit the gym months prior to a break up – she’s not getting in shape for you, she’s getting ready to hit the ground running with the next guy she’ll be fucking.”

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The Rational Male

“Women’s sexual value decreases as they age, meaning there is no guarantee that your beautiful, vivacious, 27 year old bride will remain so at 37.”

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“You are who you believe you are, and you are who she perceives you to be.”

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The Rational Male

“You cannot ‘tell’ women anything, they must be led to your conclusion and be made to think that they are the ones coming to it with their own devices – preferably by way of her imagined feminine intuition.”

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“Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor. Except World of Warcraft.”

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“Abortion is just a failsafe for women’s bad reproductive choices.”

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“Average men fail to understand that all the financial, emotional, and dependable support you could offer a woman is no substitute for raw, unmitigated, chemical desire.”

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“Climbing the mountain is about the view from the top, not the fear of falling off the edge.”

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“Women’s only real agency in life is their sexuality. It’s why they always get naked when they want attention.”

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